Skip to content
Menu
wandering matt
  • Book: 4000s by 40
  • 4000s by 40 Gallery
  • NH Hikes & Peak Lists
  • In the Mountains
  • In Nature
  • In Writing
  • In Verse
  • In Health
  • In Life
  • About Matt
  • Seekers Bookshop & Reviews
  • Home
wandering matt
cold winter scene

The Reluctant

Posted on November 19, 2025April 16, 2026

Of all the people, in all the world,
how did you come to pick me?
Why do I deserve
these special maladies?

Where did I go wrong?
How can I take it back?
Is there something I could do
to make up for what I lack?

Because it’s too much—
these illnesses, these defeats.
Why, God, oh why
did you give them all to me?

Is there something I should know about
that I clearly don’t?
Or something I should try
that all others won’t?

I can’t see where this goes
or how to pass this test.
My brain is on fire
and my soul wants to rest.

But I don’t want to leave.
I’m not ready for that.
I just know I can’t stay
in the place where I’m at.

So, I guess I’ll get up,
keep putting in the work,
and hope tomorrow comes
with a little less hurt.

Without any answers.
Without a clear path.
Absorbing the blows,
enduring the wrath.

If I’m being honest,
this is all starting to feel
like a game you designed
to show that you’re real.

Is that what this is?
A test of my will?
To see if I’m able
to swallow this pill?

So I can be someone
who made it through,
able to go on,
and prove what you can do?

No? Maybe? Okay, fine,
I’ll still give You a shot,
and we’ll just have to find out
if you’re real or not.

— ❧ —

Poetry Corner

This poem came from a place I found myself in several years back. We have these moments—these tests in our lives that make us wonder if we’re ever going to find a way through. Without getting too personal, I was at a point with my health where doctors had given up trying to figure out what was wrong. Sent home from the ER, I spent a very long night on the floor with unbelievable pain, having a reluctant conversation. It was a good start.

For more poems, you can find a collection of them at In Verse.

Share this:

  • Email a link to a friend (Opens in new window) Email
  • Share on Bluesky (Opens in new window) Bluesky
  • Share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
  • More
  • Print (Opens in new window) Print
  • Share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window) LinkedIn

Related

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

4000s by 40 3D Cover

Love the mountains? 4000s by 40 is a story of missteps, hard-earned lessons, and the mountains that shape us.
[Find it here]

Thanks for visiting!
If you’d like occasional updates on new posts, upcoming books, and other stories from the trail, subscribe to the monthly newsletter. No daily inbox flooding—just a thoughtful monthly roundup of what’s happening.

WELCOME! THANKS FOR SIGNING UP! LOOK IN YOUR INBOX FOR A CONFIRMATION EMAIL...

SITE SEARCH

If you're looking for something specific, explore the site. Search on any word, mountain, etc., to see if you can find what you are looking for:

Search Bar

LATEST WANDERINGS

  • April 30, 2026 by Matt Larson Entering Wide-Brimmed Hat Territory
  • April 22, 2026 by Matt Larson Tread Carefully Out There This Spring
  • April 20, 2026 by Matt Larson Hiking in the Rain: It's a Shell Game
  • April 19, 2026 by Matt Larson Back at North Pack
  • April 15, 2026 by Matt Larson Messages From the Federal Hill Fire Tower
  • April 15, 2026 by Matt Larson There Be Ghosts Out Here
  • April 12, 2026 by Matt Larson Searching for the Wolf Tree
  • April 9, 2026 by Matt Larson Stewards of the Earth

Wandering Matt On…

  • Instagram
  • Bluesky
  • Goodreads
©2026 wandering matt | WordPress Theme by Superbthemes.com